Conscious Kink with Ms. Elle X

Although "Dominant" and "submissive" (Dom/sub) are often viewed as BDSM-exclusive, these terms fundamentally refer to a spectrum of naturally occurring strengths, traits, and expressions in every person and every relationship structure.

That's why you'll find mind-blowing insights, powerful wisdom, and practical advice on leveraging your natural Dom, sub, or switch personality for ultimate personal empowerment and relational fulfillment in every episode! 

Subscribe to this podcast wherever you listen, and if you love what you hear, you can support future episodes and join these monthly Group Coaching sessions on patreon.com/ellexerotica!

Cheers to dominating in every area of life and love!  XOXO, Ms. Elle

From Guilt to Grandeur: A FemDom’s Reclamation of Space
Apr 19, 2025 – 28:09
Dom/sub Dynamics Unveiled: Decoding Power vs. Poison
Apr 5, 2025 – 36:47
Outsmarting the Pseudo-Sub: A FemDom’s Path to Power and Peace
Mar 22, 2025 – 50:03
Unshackling Self-Trust: Rewriting the Sub’s Script
Mar 8, 2025 – 28:46
The Toxicity of Positive Projection
Feb 1, 2025 – 48:20
Crafting Submissive Communication
Dec 21, 2024 – 26:09
Limerence After Loss
Dec 8, 2024 – 25:45
Overcoming Masculine Shame as a Lesbian Dominant
Nov 23, 2024 – 13:52
How to Confidently Vet a New Sub After Being Burned
Nov 2, 2024 – 36:44
The Mental Game of Thrilling Domination
Oct 20, 2024 – 21:55
Increasing the Dom/sub Gap Without Correction or Punishment
Oct 5, 2024 – 01:09:16
Caring for the Flare-Up
Aug 24, 2024 – 32:25
Getting Kinky with a Chronic Illness
Aug 10, 2024 – 38:31
Embracing the Darkness: A Guide to Shadow Work
Jul 6, 2024 – 20:13
Dealing with a Donut of Love
Jun 29, 2024 – 26:45
Boundaries and the Baiting Beta
Jun 15, 2024 – 39:56
Building BDSM Muscle as a Dominant-Switch
Jun 1, 2024 – 43:27
Protecting the Panicked Peanut
Apr 13, 2024 – 18:16
Finding Confidence for the Codependent Dominant
Mar 16, 2024 – 35:46
Embracing the Freedom to Feel as a FemDom
Mar 2, 2024 – 25:41
No Heavy Petting: Scripting Non-Sexual Pet Play
Feb 17, 2024 – 39:46
Saying "Neigh" to Narcissism
Jan 13, 2024 – 26:52
Choosing Kinky Cravings at the BDSM Buffet
Dec 30, 2023 – 38:29
Dominant Harmony: Building Accountability Without Eroding Autonomy
Dec 9, 2023 – 20:45
Too Bad So Sad: Shutting Down the Chronic Brat
Nov 25, 2023 – 29:52
Redefining the Risk of Vulnerability
Nov 11, 2023 – 20:28
Balancing 24/7 Service in the Daily Grind
Oct 28, 2023 – 12:14
Feminization and FemDom
Oct 21, 2023 – 50:20
Self-Gaslighting Safeword Use
Sep 23, 2023 – 28:34
Facilitating a Successful Petplay Party
Sep 9, 2023 – 19:11
Adapting to a New 24/7 Dynamic
Aug 26, 2023 – 21:44
Advocating for Aftercare
Aug 12, 2023 – 12:59
Balancing Boundaries and Play During Vetting
Jul 29, 2023 – 19:47
Sneaking Kink Around Vanillas
Jul 15, 2023 – 21:26
Show Me What You Got
Jun 24, 2023 – 26:35
Empowering an Empathic FemDom
Jun 11, 2023 – 18:45
Building Bad*ss Boundaries
May 14, 2023 – 45:03
Preventing Pressure-Packed Domination
Apr 30, 2023 – 19:52
Introducing a Second Female Sub
Apr 2, 2023 – 20:57
Expanding the Power Gap in Pup Play
Mar 19, 2023 – 35:10
Stopping Submissive Self-Sabotage
Mar 5, 2023 – 20:05
Fostering Feisty Feminine Energy
Feb 26, 2023 – 24:30
Preventing Predictable BDSM Play
Feb 19, 2023 – 16:01
Finding Your Femdom Voice
Feb 7, 2023 – 29:12
Developing Self-Love as a Female Dominant
Jan 28, 2023 – 19:41
Untangling Polyamory Knots in an Open Marriage
Jan 21, 2023 – 16:59
Fixing Failing FemDom Rituals
Jan 16, 2023 – 28:40
Family Boundaries & Submissive Punishments
Nov 27, 2022 – 34:40
Training Communication in a Shy Submissive
Nov 20, 2022 – 22:15
Rebuilding a Broken Dynamic
Nov 13, 2022 – 38:25